I don't know that I'm afraid of my wife so much as I'm afraid of hurting her or upsetting her without intending to. I've considered trying to express these feelings to her and talk them out with her, which may discharge some of the tension. Is this a wise course of action?
Last night we tried sleeping in the same bed for the first time since I had the surgery. She wound up getting up and moving to the couch, where she didn't sleep well. Why? Not because I was snoring this time, but because--how can I put this delicately?--I had a gas problem. As if my life needed to be any more like an episode of South Park! So I'm going to be doing some high-speed research to see if there's anything I can do about that...maybe something I could take to alleviate that problem, as with the snoring.
Also, Five Love Languages is on order.
- "A"
"Everything that happens, happens. Everything that, in happening, causes something else to happen, causes something else to happen. Everything that, in happening, causes itself to happen again, happens again."
So I'm going to be doing some high-speed research to see if there's anything I can do about that...maybe something I could take to alleviate that problem, as with the snoring.