Ok...what's with the magic "week"? I've noticed that tends to be a time frame you use when doing things with her....first talk you were going to wait a week, then talk again, now you've asked her to call some psych's and wait a week to hear from them...then call more if none calls?
I'm not sure if you intend to do this, but it's not really helpful in your sitch. In my experience, when it comes to calling counselors etc....they will call you back within a day or so (unless out of town) or you aren't going to hear back from them. By giving her these week time-frames all you are accomplishing is putting things off...and you are providing her with the excuse to put things off too. I believe this is you walking on egg-shells again in an attempt not to push her....well sometimes we need to push.
This is important to you, her working her issues out is important to you (and should be to her too, I'm sure it is)...push for her to find someone who will talk with her...don't conveniently hand her the excuse of "giving it a week and then call more" to not deal with things NOW.
This is a trap many of us fall into....and I know you are just working your courage up to do many things, so having to do some of the things you are advised right now is difficult for you. But, keep in mind you can do these things without sounding demaning/pushy. Here's what I mean...."Honey, if you haven't heard back from those other pyshc's you called by today...why not call some others? That doesn't mean you cannot go with someone else if they should call you back...but it may give you a broader pool to choose from...and you just may find the one you like the best quicker."
Really, this is what I did when it came to finding our C. I called several...the ones who didn't call me back were obviously not the right fit for me, or they would have had the common courtesy to return the call....the one who called us back the quickest and took the time to listen a bit on the phone and give a bit of feedback...she's the one we went with. And...she called back quickly.
I'm glad to hear you're mobile again, I'm sure that's a HUGE relief to you too!
