Greeneyedlass, I will try and remember. What would be a good response to charges of "obsessing"?

My wife wants to work on her sleep disorder first. She does have a point, because if she's able to sleep properly, it would help her energy level, which she'll need if we are to actually engage in any sexual activity. Besides, good sleep will help her heal faster from the foot surgery, and will be of general benefit all around. I used our health insurance company's Web site to look up seven psychiatrists with a specialty in sleep disorders, all relatively close by, and gave her the contact info. Tomorrow she will be calling them to find one with which she can schedule an appointment. Meanwhile, I picked up some advice on supplements for her as well. I'm doing what I can to help her here.

Meanwhile, I got props from her for saying that I wouldn't be averse to taking dancing lessons with her, were it not for the money as well as our current orthopedic conditions. She commented, "Dancing is one aspect of making love." Filing that one for future reference...

- "A"


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