Quote: And just a heads up. I slept on the couch in my first marriage to avoid the confrontation of sex. I also said that it was because he snored. In my current marriage, there are times that I have slept on the couch because of snoring. The difference is that in this marriage I start the night in our bed. If he wakes me up with his snoring and rolling over does not work (like when he has a cold), I'll get up and go to the couch.
He now knows how bad his snoring gets and offers to go sleep on the couch...so we kind of trade-off when necessary. However it has become rare that either of us has to sleep on the couch....he's such a nice guy about it too....he realizes that way we BOTH get some undisturbed sleep....and never complains.
