You're probably right, ME1967. She does ask me "does that feel good?" sometimes, and I generally say "mmmhmm" or nod my head, but if I were to articulate it, especially if I did so before she were to ask, that might have a more positive effect.
Greeneyedlass, you ask, "In the past when you two had a more regular SL what would your W respond to? A direct request or a off the cuff comment?" Honestly, I don't know how to answer that question. She was the one that took the lead a lot of the time, sometimes through subtle & affectionate encouragement, sometimes with more direct clues (when she would slide into bed nude and cuddle up next to me, that was definitely a clue-by-four to the head!) Might that piece of information be relevant to what's been going on?
- "A"
"Everything that happens, happens. Everything that, in happening, causes something else to happen, causes something else to happen. Everything that, in happening, causes itself to happen again, happens again."
