LNL - Sounds to me like H is uncomfortable with your new level of detachment and trying to poke around and get a response out of you. Not sure what the best approach would be, but maybe going as completely dark on him as you have is being counterproductive? I know it's good for your mental health, but maybe it is just provoking him to annoy you more? If your goal is to get to a point where he doesn't annoy and bother you, maybe this approach is backfiring by triggering too much retaliation from him? Is there a way to remain detached while still taking his calls?
