The travel is not the issue, the having his hands on the passport is. He will not have paid up, by the end of August, (as per his boast) approx $1,450 in unpaid maintenance and contributions to D's bike purchase. He grandly informed me last year that he would not give his permission for "such long travel" away with D in the future. These are written threats in emails. Yet he "hopes" D's passport is in order! My Feudal Lord, or what????
My sis thinks that H is getting used to having his own way and will keep on at me until he has what he wants, paying me little and driving me away from this house to other country etc.
I wish I had the aswer to all this, I really do. I have this infantile wish that all this horribleness will all magically just go away...
H is being the tin pot dictator and enjoys seeing me run about. *I* will have to run to the lawyer about money, about the passport issue if it gets to that. While he just smirks and sits pretty. And issues threats.
I am more vulnerable than he is, in terms of residence and nationality status, and earning power. He knows this. I am a foreigner here. Definitely second class citizens.
I will go see a lawyer and see what can be done and what is advised. Maybe they can get an undertaking that he will pay up the arears and hand over the passport to me or something.
H is arrogant, mean, lacks empathy and is VERY VERY self centred. He does not CARE about anybody else but himself. He is also lazy, and manipulative.
What is the answer to this?
Livnlearn
"The unexamined life is not worth living" - Socrates
