I'm glad you enjoyed your time away and sorry to read up on your undercurrent of dealing with your H. How hideous.
I don't have any advice for you since you are already doing the things that appear to be necessary when dealing with him. What I don't get is the unilateral decision making he seems to do that always comes out in his favor. Maintaining a household for a child is a year round job and he needs to have the lawyer point out that a vacation is hardly an excuse for skipping CS payments.
Quote: She also told me that her friends told her she was lucky that she has a Mum who does so many things with her.
Maybe this will encourage her to give you the benefit of the doubt more often and to express gratitude for the life that you give her? I'll pray for this for you.
Carry on and have a great weekend!
Betsey
"There are only 2 ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."
Betsey 
