I have an address I can access from anywhere, on webmail through my website, but you do need to have access to a computer and internet connection! Not every country is like the USA!!

With H's email to D last year, either he didn't send it or it got lost/deleted somewhere, but he just launched into attack mode (in an email to D, no less) without bothering to find out what happened.

Anyway, I just emailed H a few lines -

Said OK, I would get D to keep in touch while we were away.

That I didn't wish to be abused any more hence my wish to communicate by email from now onwards. I will not pussy foot around this fact, he has called me b**ch and shouted a number of times in the past year.

I also said that I had held out for a reconciliation for two years and he had made it clear what his answer was. That from now on I don't wish to have a social relationship or friendship, so meeting for coffee and lunch are out of the question. But that I did hope for a decent co-parenting relationship.

Ended with my best wishes.

I felt a twinge of emotion, but not much.

Livnlearn

"The unexamined life is not worth living" - Socrates