Prepare for the fight of your life. I told XH he was a bully and that I had had it. He then got a lawyer who now helps him bully me. I have not spoken to or had any contact with XH since May 29. He obviously can't stand it because he is taking me to court to try to dismiss my restraining order.
Keep pressing that you will only communicate via e-mail. My XH would call me 20 times a day, get me worked up and then record it when I lost it. Now I am having to defend myself against voicemails that I left after he completely enraged me on purpose. Don't take the bait.
My only advice is keep contact to a minimum and give him nothing. If you give him an inch he will take a mile. The longer I am away from XH the stronger I become, you will too.
