I have drafted a letter, which I will send to him by registerd post, as well as by email. This will "invite" him to pay up. It gives him the chance to play ball, with fair warning.

If this does go before a judge one day, so be it. I am not prepared to be walked all over the rest of my life by my EX husband, for God's sake.

Everyone who has seen how my H is, says he is the type who, if you give an inch, takes off your whole arm. He needs to know I am a pussy cat no longer.

Livnlearn

"The unexamined life is not worth living" - Socrates