Quote: What is your goal in sending a letter? It seems that you want him to understand. I don't think he has any intention of "getting it." You are going to have to do what you need to do in spite of his refusal to understand or cooperate.
I think you are right here.
H is sneaky. He has written that unless I reply to his (imperious) demands, he will be forced to take action (halve payments etc). He has already delcared he will not pay me for August, when he has D. Lawyer says it doesn't work like that.
H throws me all these assumptions - "we have to talk", "the situation has to change" etc trying to oblige me to engage, if I don't it is only my fault that he "took action". See how manipulative he is?
I think we are nearing the stage when we will have to communicate solely through solicitors for any of this stuff.
I don't sleep well and my other work is as usual suffering.
Livnlearn
"The unexamined life is not worth living" - Socrates
