Actually, the reason I haven't done this letter before, even though Ellie suggested one some time ago, is that I thought just by laying down boundaries as the occasion arose, he would get the message. I don't think it is working. In one of his recent emails, he said, if you don't work enough to earn xxxx so I have to pay you, then how come you don't even have time to bring D into town? He seems to think I am still at his disposal. I tried being nice and accomodating all last year, as you know, and look where that got me. No more!
All my friends and family tell me, what I do is my business, he elected to bu**er off, so now he pays me for D and keeps out of my life!
Livnlearn
"The unexamined life is not worth living" - Socrates
