I have to report that D has passed the princesses and castles stage, and pooh pooh's anything remotely pink with a great deal of show. But she was into it for ages.
I just have to trust it was something about D, not H using her as a spy or something.
I am up early to try and frame some of the questions I need to ask and make a note of them, to take to the lawyer today.
It sounds very much as if H is peeved that I am doing anything with my life. Looks like I would need to wear sack cloth and ashes to make him feel good about his choices.
Anyway, I will get some answers today. Keep you all posted.
About not winning any arguments with a narcissist, it is funny, H always has said to me he didn't like arguing with me becuase I always won with my logic. But now, H is not using logic so much as bullying tactics. He holds some of the purse strings and is using that to jerk me around. I need a cast iron agreement that does not need renegotiation every two minutes.
Livnlearn
"The unexamined life is not worth living" - Socrates
