Thanks for the book recommendation, Michele. Dealing with an N is what we need advice on, it is all very well saying "run for the hills" as many advise, but once we have been married to them and have children with them it is another matter, and not easily done!
I will have to take note of the possible 'D forgot something' excuse and make she she has everything. Thanks for pointing that out.
Livnlearn
"The unexamined life is not worth living" - Socrates
