Even if you are not worried about H taking things while you are gone, have you considered what H could find if he did a little snooping in your house? I never would have thought (have many time have we said that???) that my H would resort to snooping, but I caught him on MY computer going throught MY personal email accounts...including this bb. I have only recently found out that he copied about every piece of paper in the house that he could lay his hands on....he even copied MY address book. Lesson learned....I keep all important papers under lock and key in my office at work.
Just make sure you are protecting yourself from all angles, especially since you are already anticipating a finacial fight. You never know what ammo H can dig up against you.
