Liv, I just have a minute but want to recommend a book I've just finished which was very, very helpful to me. It's by Eleanor Payson and is called "The Wizard of Oz and Other Narcissists". Although it's a droll title, the book is a very practical overview of what causes narcissism and how one deals with a narcissist. It was just what the doctor ordered! Eleanor Payson has a website: Eleanor Payson I know you can order the book there, or thru Amazon.
I agree with Ellie. Your H doesn't really respect boundaries, so please make sure your house is secure and someone is watching it while you are out of town. Especially if your daughter "forgets" something and asks to come by the house.
