Lol Liv I so like the way that you write. But more significantly I can so relate to it!
My h was going to buy a cottage in the country miles from anywhere and disappear off with OW. How nice would that have been? Instead he lives approximately 8 miles from me and complains if I don't wave when I see him.
Anyway, it seems to me that you going to the lawyer to firm things up a little is a good idea. For your own sanity I think you need to reduce these communications with your h if at all possible. It seems to me that he does seem to "touch base" quite a lot.
