As loathe as I am to find anything in common with your H, the um, tendency to break computers is one of them.
Though I have fared better at home, I'm afraid my colleagues have donned me with a nickname "computer killer" because it's sadly true. I've had my current one for a little over a year and it's already limping on some USB equipment--and it's a matter of time before I kill the whole thing. My boss isn't entirely amused by my abilities (it requires paying a partner some $ to transfer my accounting software), he knows I'm a work machine and I get things done. That's my saving grace!
Aside from this, your H and I have nothing in common!
You sound really good, friend. Keep going!
Betsey
"There are only 2 ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."
Betsey 
