This is why you need No Contact with your h. He needs to sort his own problems out.
I take it that it was HIS choice where he lived. It's nor his problem to sort transport out. The thing is other people won't take on board his problems ie the landlord or w3 and so neither should you. His problems are not your problems.
One thing I have learned is I cannot facilitate his relationship with his children. And believe me I tried!
