H called yesterday. He is having some problems with arrangements to get D up to his place at the weekend. W3 can no longer give him a lift, there is a change of plan there. He is trying to work something out. The tone on his voicemail is someting else though - "I'm certainly not going to spend the whole of Saturday coming down and picking up D....." etc etc.

I was planning to have a "recovery" weekend after the flurry of activity the past two weeks, but it may not happen.

I am learning so much about his use of language these days. Things are never his fault or responsibility, he is always ranting about how others are not there to do stuff. And any of the stuff he doesn't like about his life now is stuff I am doing to him. There is NO recongnition of the fact that it was HIS decision and subsequent series of actions that has set in train the present circumstances.

I would post more, but although it is a national holiday here, I have two lessons programmed!

Livnlearn


"The unexamined life is not worth living" - Socrates