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came to the realisation about two months ago or so that he is a full blown Narcissist. It is fascinating and depressing reading about it and knowing that H is right in there...
I know for sure this is not merely a temporary MLC thing, although narcissists do experience MLC too, and it is not a pretty sight. My H is a narcissist experiencing MLC. I hate all this labelling, but it does help me to clarify what the options are.





My c always had said me my h is fully Narcissist.. that more than a MLC there a Narcissistic patology... How do you get that label... and what books or sites you visited abut this...?
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I realise that a friendship between us is not possible. It is pie in the sky. I want to work for cordial relations between us. Period.




I undrestand you completely bc in our past separation i nevr, never wants a friendship with him at least while he just still was hurting me...!!.. we cant force ourselves for a type of relation we dont want...!!...

And yes, you are an atractive woman who can get a new life... you can build a new future, and yes... try to isolate from him.... they can really affected us bc their guilty and madness... go ahead
Andrea