Hey Deb -
It is a GREAT sign that your H is seeing her faults now!

And see - by you sticking to the high road, she has started to suffer by comparison with her whiny demands. (Yes, dear readers, there is a difference between being a doormat and being a beacon of calm and love - although sometimes there can be a very fine line between the two ).

Now - H said you should be dancing for joy - how about showing him a little of the happy, relaxed, fun Deb? The one he came home for? The one he has always wanted, but thought she was gone?

Ellie