Hi Mollie, boy so much of what you say hits home. It's so hard to really let go and not be anxious about all the "what if's"....yech....but we do have to work on it.

I find it's really important to work on the WOA w/H. I know that's part of what went wrong between us before...so that's part of how to make it right, as Sage said on someone's thread today. I remember her saying what a huge difference it made in her M, and I can see that it's also made a difference for us. Plus, now I get some from H in return, instead of just his grumpy resentful silences.

and, yes, I know you and Totally are absolutely right about the AD's...I do need to use them. one thing that's an issue that I didnt post about earlier is that the Dr. has had me take them days 14 - 28 of my cycle. well, um, now cycles are as much as 90 days long, so who the heck knows when to take them? guess I need to just see about taking them all the time, or else on 2 weeks and off 2 weeks regardless of my periods.


been around awhile!