I'm really unsure of what to do next....keep on as I have been?

"act as if"????, step up the pursuit????? change directions and back waaaaayyyyy off? I dunno........

Have I made progress here lately, do you all think????? I'm honestly not sure. what I'd been really trying to do for the last several months was make no mention of ow/a and just act "as if"....but then last weekend (weekend before?) H told me he had no intention of deciding, he was going to just let things go on as they were, he figured he could "keep that thing (the A) toned down there" and keep up with things here and keep everybody happy, but now he sees he can't do that.?????????????????????

I really am unsure how to respond in light of the new info that's come up the last couple of weeks. this damned A has been going on for 2 years now!


been around awhile!