Okay - confession time - at the risk of appearing stupid before thousands of people - here's what I did once:
H and I went out to dinner. Being flirtatious. I went to the bathroom, and when I came back, I slipped my thong into his pocket.
H REALLY liked that. Couldn't wait to finish dinner and get home with me. And still has that thong in his truck to this very day! (I think he especially liked it because it was very out of character for me - I tend to be too serious amd conservative).
I think that might work better than mailing it to him.
