yeah, Ellie I know. In fact I'm thinking I gotta crawl back up to the high road. I've been able to avoid dissing her to him for a long time....not said a derogatory word about her...but it sure came out yesterday morning. I don't know though, I didnt really say anything to bad about her, just that everybody has health problems and I didnt see how hers were any worse than anyone elses, and what kind of a person uses stuff like that to break up a family (evidently she has high blood pressure and has to take 2 meds...well, so do I, mine are just combined into one. has migraines and bad pms...yeah, well, join the club, poor baby) that I saw it as hugely manipulative. and I said that I didnt agree that their A/getting together was God's doing, and that the bible provided some pretty clear guidelines in recognizing such things when it talks about the fruits of the spirit and maybe one or both of them ought to check it out.
So, I blew my cork, and pretty well dissed her, but it could have been worse. I didnt call her any of the names that were on the tip of my tongue. yeeesh, I still can feel the steam coming out of my ears when I recall him saying "you need to be nice to her, she sent me back" that night. That's what blew the cork out of the bottle.