Oh, quit beating yourself up - he really was being pretty inappropriate and insensitive. (Gosh, I remember helping my H compose a goodbye letter to OW - YUCK!).

Pull yourself together - plan to greet him tonite with good music, nice food, looking and smelling good - think about setting a mood like one of those nice stores that convince you to buy everything in sight because it smells so good and the music is so peaceful. Think MERCHANDISING, girl! Sell him on you! Presentation is important.

Ellie