Hi Ellie - So often, I wish your earlier threads were not lost
Quote: But YOUR behavior has to be so good, kind and unconditionally loving that he can recognize how manipulative and selfish hers is (takes them a while after withdrawal to see this - took my H a few months to admit it).
NG is going through this, i'll post in a bit more detail over at my place, but until I saw this post, I had no idea that it was 'normal' for this thing to take a few months to surface. Ugh.
