Continue with your plans. Do not worry about what you can not change. Keep your expections low. Breathe, relax, be happy and enjoy.
You have done what you can here as far as telling your h what you expect from this relationship...ie.."I expect there to only be two of us in our relationship".
I know that you are doubting him. It's understandable. You can not control what he is going to do, only yourself and how you choose to react. Deb, he does not carry the fate of YOUR life in his hands....you do.
I hope things work out well for you tomorrow. Best of luck!
