Stop asking, Stop ASSuming, and Act As If everything is going to be okay. get that duct tape out and put it over your mouth! Remember what my firend taught me when he showed me how to ride a motocycle - he said "Don't look where you don't want to go. If you look at the ditch, you'll end up in the ditch"
Quit looking at the ditch, Deb!!!!!!
Now - Get happy!!! Buy some new perfume!!! Smile and plan for a great day tomorrow!