Don't ask - don't bring up OW unless he does, and then DON'T attack her or he'll have to defend her (let HER be the one who looks bad). If he brings her up, though, it's okay to tell him how her creepy stuff with the car makes you a little worried she'll harrass you further.

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got some black capris and a snug hot pink ribbed sweater with a low neck (I'm going for boobs here, H likes em, I've got em, ow doesnt )




If you've got 'em, use 'em, I say

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now if I can just lose 30 pounds by Friday.




Well, the tanner takes off 10!

Ellie