Deb: I will pray for H will all my might!!!!!! Have you made arrangements for Son so you can go with him on Friday? If she is pissed he wont want to be with her on her birthday now. Take advantage. Can you suggest making it a weekend away just to be in a calm and peaceful place and just BE? He words sound almost like he is relieved. Keep up all your good work. Stay calm and focused and let him see your love. No anger or fits to cloud it all up.