Re: GEL's I sneak it in under the radar. I agree with that and see where being direct causes someone(BB in my case) to become defensive. The casual approach is what I would like to impliment most of the time but have a difficult time making enough of a statement for effect w/o stiring up some hostile feelings. I will say those hostile emotions have decreased and more does get talked about in a more casual way. It's a sloooooow process.
GEL keep up the good work and the PMA. Eventhough you write here to one person, I am sure many people benefit from you written thoughts.
ME1967, I see you making progress 10 times faster than many people here on the SSM forum. Congratulations and don't worry if some things take longer than other things. It is so nice to see you are working with your willing partner.