And I know what you mean. In one of our counseling sessions (towards the beginning of this whole process) I brought up to him when something is important, and something he wants to do he jumps right on it....so because he wasn't doing that with this it made me feel like he didn't think I/We were important.
He's still really drags his feet on stuff right now, but he's really doing better than he had been. It's not easy, but you will have to learn to reign yourself in a bit. Believe me, I know how hard that one can be...I too get obsessive about things that I want to address/fix.
