Quote: H has asked me not to ask him for sex anymore verbally because it embarrasses him. I’m just supposed to initiate physically and only at night. He said that my little “How about some nookie tonight?” makes him uncomfortable. He said that any sex talk makes him uncomfortable and he would prefer if I just didn’t bring it up.
So, don't talk to him about sex. Talk to him about the feelings he has when you start talking about sex. This is central to your and his problem. I hope that talking about feelings isn't off limits yet. For his sake as well as yours.
SM
"If we will be quiet and ready enough, we shall find compensation in every disappointment." Henry David Thoreau