H has asked me not to ask him for sex anymore verbally because it embarrasses him. I’m just supposed to initiate physically and only at night. He said that my little “How about some nookie tonight?” makes him uncomfortable. He said that any sex talk makes him uncomfortable and he would prefer if I just didn’t bring it up.
I’m a bit frustrated with this. Fine, I’ll initiate physically, but we can’t talk about it.
So, what the hell am I supposed to do now? Yea, we’re making love. That’s all fine and I’m very grateful to have a sex life again, but I’d like to share it verbally with him also.
Part of me says to leave it alone, be grateful for what I have. But I really want to know his thoughts on all of this.
