I would really pay attention to what his physical contact with you could be trying to say.
I have to tell you that I'm not the best when it comes to subtle. There are times, even in the work environment, where I have been brought to the carpet and not even known it. It will eventually hit me later and I'll go back and make sure that I have it right.
So what do you think about me just asking him if I have ever rejected him? I don't think that this is something that I would ask immediately because he's going to deny it, if only for ego purposes, but eventually, as our trust level goes up and our ability to talk more opens... I'd like to ask.
