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OK, men... maybe I need to ask you then. Why would you rather masturbate than make love? I realize that we all do it, and it fulfills a base need, but it's incredibly lonely and unfulfilling next to the real thing.



As I have experienced so much rejection from the real thing and/or going through more hoops than a performing tiger, I can sure see why one would. I agree that the real thing is better...considering that the alternative is frustration.

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And it cannot be fear of rejection. That’s my fear, but not his as I don’t believe that I have ever rejected him.



Are you sure about that?


Why didn't I find this years ago?