I have sent H an email with the following questions. Just to clarify, he has asked that they be written to start with so that he has time to think without me standing there tapping my foot.

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1. Do you resent last night? Do you feel that you were forced to perform?
2. In past relationships, was there ever a complaint on frequency?
3. Would you be willing to set a schedule for making love? If so, what is a attainable schedule for you to stick to?
4. What do I do to make you feel valued and loved? If you know, what else would you like me to do?
5. What do I do that makes you feel unvalued and unloved?