RE: ME1967
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I couldn't trust myself to not bring anger into the conversation, so I wrote a letter to him and then read it to him


ME1967, my hat is off to you for doing something so bold to get your M back on track. I would suspect others here on the BB wish they could work with their partner that had an attitude and skills like you have.

Greeneyedlass has good advice. Remember, what is a reward/want for you may not be a reward/want for your H. Look at the lists on "CLICK HERE" In the left-hand column, you will find free resources currently available for you to use to strengthen your marriage.. There are other concepts on the site and in my opinion are worth reading.

What do loveing acts look like?
Hug me more is too general.
Hug me for 30 seconds before you go to work, is a measurable task.

OG Lou