If porn is something that he needs to perform, then I really don't have much problem with it. As I said earlier, I don't really care how the engine starts as long as it runs to me and doesn't hurt anybody else or himself.

If he needs to dress in drag and do the hula to get an erection, then so be it. I'll buy him a dress for each day of the week to show my support.

It's not the means but the end that I'm interested in.