ME, I see a lot of hope for you, because you were able to communicate the depth of your feelings to your H, and he responded in return.
Have you had similar converstions in the past? How did those usually pan out? I ask because my H and I had many similar ‘pouring-out-of-the-heart’ type conversations, which would be followed by his initiating sex. He would try once or twice more and then things would slide back to the usual. Real and lasting change came for us after I found that I had to change myself first…this required a lot of introspection and growth on my part.
I hope you will also take us up on all the reading suggestions,
Also, GEL gave you some excellent advice. Read her post very carefully. Wanting to be wanted is a very human trait. Be careful that you don’t put the onus on your H to prove that he ‘wants’ you, because I think this is a cheeseless tunnel.
