Quote: But if he is substituting porn for me, then I have a problem. I do not know if this is the case, but I suppose that I will eventually find out.
It's not necessarily a matter of straight-forwardly substituting porn for you. It might be more like his sexual engine will only start with the high voltage jump that porn can provide or it might be that he has a hard time combining soft, loving feelings towards you with the more purely aggressive part of his drive stimulated by porn. I know both of these are some what true with my H.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
