Quote: And, it might be hopeful, but the fact that he's scared means that he does care, doesn't it? If he really didn't give a hoot, he would have acted as if there had been no email, right?
Sounds like guilt to me but you will be best off if you can figure out how to express your hurt without coming off like Mommy busting him for being a bad boy. I wish I had handled the porn issue in a more direct but blase fashion. Something along the lines of "It's tempting/easy to escape into the world of sexual fantasy sometimes isn't it? Some of my favorite fantasies are x,y and z. However, fantasy isn't enough for me. One of the reasons I chose to marry you was because I wanted you for my partner in the real life sexual world. I have to tell you that you need to figure out how to come back to earth sexually if you have any interest in having a happy wife."
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
