Welcome to the BB, ME. We all are in the business of trying to improve our respective marriages. I am a former LDW. I can see both HD and LD POVs and I must say that either side of the issue is not a day at the beach. People with a lack of desire feel broken when they feel unable to meet the needs of their loved one and people with an abundance feel unloved when their needs go unmet. You'll find the posters here supportive and wise. Good luck, ME.
I don't mind the sun sometime
The images it shows
I can taste you on my lips
And smell you in my clothes
Cinnamon and Sugar
And softly spoken lies
You never know just how you look
Through someone elses eyes
BHS-"Pepper"
