Don't be surprised if he won't read the book. many of the LD spouses here, including mine wouldn't read the book. Also, you might find you don't get overwhelming cooperation, especially at first. Here are the WWME guidelines for writing the love letter. Remember, concentrate on you, and your feelings. Dont' accuse, attack, unload etc, doing so will only shut him down. You'll probably need to do this many times over the course of several months. When I first came here, someone here said expect it to take at least a month for every year you've been married. I think that is probably a minimum time, assuming you do everything perfectly. Remember, we're all behind you here.
