Quote: I reread my post and I realize that I have managed to debunk everything you said, JJ. It’s not my intention, I’m listening and hearing and it’s making me nauseous.
I hope I am wrong. I was literally nauseous also when I had to deal with the porn issue. I recommend fish oil tablets. The Omega 3s will keep you from getting into what would be an unfortunate yet understandable hysterical state over the issue. However, if you research male biology, it becomes pretty clear that men do not go 8 monthes without ejaculating unless there is something physically/hormonally wrong with them. If you don't want to directly confront him about the MB issue, you could just say "I've been researching male biology. It's really a sign of something wrong that you haven't ejaculated in the last 8 monthes. I thing you ought to see an endocrinologist.". That way he will either have to admit to MB rather than having sex with you or agree to see an endocrinologist or make it clear that he has no interest in resolving this problem no matter the effect on your relationship.
My househusband/LD connection theory was based solely on anecdotal evidence that there does seem to be a correlation between low drive in men and unemployment/underemployment/general lack of stereotypical male ambition. This may be a correlation rather than a cause/effect thing. Testosterone does make people feel more energetic and pro-active but being more pro-active and energized also increases testosterone levels. For instance, women who work out with weights have higher testosterone levels.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
