That is, if you were addicted to porn, and you stopped using it, would you still consider yourself LD or not?
I read on another website that the majority of LDH's masturbate, setting them apart from the LDW's who don't have sex with their partner or without. With my LDH, it is not a matter of frequency anymore but rather his mindset and how he approaches sex. He told me last night that he doesn't feel horny until I show that I am horny. On an intellectual level, I get that. I can easily see how arousing it is to have someone pursue you and show their desire for you. He so far has failed to see that this is what I want for myself, also. I want him to show his desire FIRST, once in a while.
