Gabriel, I just wanted to pop in, say hello, and congratulations on holding things together post D... i hope i have your strength when the time comes.. I notice you still refer to her as your W. I guess its a hard habit to break.. there isn't much new in my sitch, she is still intending to Divorce me.. nothing i do has any effect.. but i have the kids alot, for which i am grateful... I think its honorable that you still try to reunite with your W, post D.. i dont know whether i could do that... Things are still very messy in my life.. i am getting by, but barely. I haven't Gotten a life, just cant seem to get that part together..I still love my wife, and thats part of the problem, i can become very depressed.. Oh well, life goes on. Take care, my friend..